Secrets (23)

Keeping secrets is important. It helps to build trust and it strengthens friendship. To be a good friend one keeps secrets. There are times however, when keeping the secret isn’t in the best interest of the friend. In this case you should go to the friend and tell them what you think, and ask them seek counsel. If they choose not to seek counsel (depending on the situation) then you should seek counsel for them anonymously, while keeping their trust. Then give that information to them in your own words… It’s very important not to break trust yet to help them in every possible way. That’s what friends are for.